If you suspect your spouse of cheating, hire a private investigator!
Private investigators are experts at identifying infidelity and they will be able to get the proof you need about whether you are just being paranoid or if your suspicions are justified. Most of the time if you suspect it, it’s happening. It’s just a matter of getting the evidence now.
Having an affair outside of another relationship is an emotionally demanding and time-consuming endeavour. Especially, if this affair is new and it’s the first time the spouse is involved in one. Lying to the regular partner, pretending as if nothing is happening, day after day coming home and kissing, and cooking, and playing with children, and sleeping together and then giving love and care and attention to the other person the spouse is cheating with, creates stress, whether one realises it or not. The stress can transpire in many different ways, but usually, there are a few signs you can spot.
While everyone is different, certain behaviours when acted upon together may be a definitive sign of cheating. Here are a few red flags to look out for: